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<h2>Lectures</h2>
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<h3>Srimad-Bhagavatam Lectures</h3>
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To love Kṛṣṇa, you don't require any material acquisition. No material acquisition will help. So if somebody says: "Oh, I have to bring fruit and flower at least, and incense to the temple, otherwise . . ." Yes. That is the sign of love.
The sign of love is six. Six. They are six in number. What is that? You give something to your lover and you accept something from your lover. If you simply go on giving your lover, and if you don't . . . your lover does not give you something, then there is no love. Dadāti pratigṛhṇāti. Everything is defined in the Vedic literature. Love means one should give and should accept also.
Dadāti pratigṛhṇāti bhuṅkte bhojayate (Upadeśāmṛta 4). One should give the lover eatables and accept eatables from him or her. Dadāti pratigṛhṇāti bhuṅkte bhojayate guhyam ākhyāti pṛcchati ca . . . you should not keep anything secret within your mind, and the lover should not keep anything secret within the mind. If these six kinds of exchanges are there, then there is love. And that love should be without any reason and without being stopped by any material cause.
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[[Vanisource:710826 - Lecture SB 01.02.06 - London|710826 - Lecture SB 01.02.06 - London]]
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Caitanya Mahāprabhu says that, "If You make me&#10;unhappy for many thousands of years by Your disappearance, but by not being&#10;present before me, I don't mind." Just see. "I don't&#10;mind." Āśliṣya: "You either embrace me, or You trample down me&#10;on Your feet, You are at liberty, whatever You like." Lampaṭa. Lampaṭa,&#10;just like a debauched husband sometimes ill-treats the good wife, and the good&#10;wife tolerates.
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There are many instances such thing, India, still, but&#10;that is diminishing. Of course, if we say so many stories, it will take . . .&#10;but there are many examples. I have got personal experience of my youngest&#10;sister, you see. She is dead and gone. Her husband was a first-class debauchee.&#10;(break) . . . she could understand, after her marriage.
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But she was so tolerant that when I used to go to her&#10;house, I used to enquire about my brother-in-law, and she would reply, "Oh,&#10;he has gone just now out." She would never say that her husband never&#10;comes home. So in order to hide the secrecy . . . and later on I saw—this is&#10;our practical experience—that debauched husband become a faithful servant of my&#10;sister, simply by her toleration. This is practical experience I have seen.
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So the same thing, sometimes it is happened that a man,&#10;man has got a, I mean to say, spirit of controlling. So his wife tolerates,&#10;then the . . . then there will be no misunderstanding; gradually the family&#10;life will be nice. But if in a moment's misunderstanding we prepare ourself to&#10;be separated, that is not . . . there is no love.
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There is no love. So here the Lord Caitanya gives the&#10;same example, that "Either You embrace me, or kiss me, or You trample down&#10;under Your feet, because You are a debauch, I know, still You are my&#10;beloved." This is pure love.
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So that is stated here that love of Godhead, not for any&#10;purpose. Without any purpose. Ahaituky apratihatā. Apratihatā means&#10;without being hampered by any reason. "Oh, I cannot love Kṛṣṇa, because I&#10;am very poor man." Or "I cannot love Kṛṣṇa, because I have no&#10;education, I cannot study Vedānta." No.
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To love Kṛṣṇa, you don't require any material&#10;acquisition. No material acquisition will help. So if somebody says: "Oh,&#10;I have to bring fruit and flower at least, and incense to the temple, otherwise&#10;. . ." Yes. That is the sign of love.
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The sign of love is six. Six. They are six in number.&#10;What is that? You give something to your lover and you accept something from&#10;your lover. If you simply go on giving your lover, and if you don't . . . your&#10;lover does not give you something, then there is no love. Dadāti pratigṛhṇāti.&#10;Everything is defined in the Vedic literature. Love means one should give and&#10;should accept also.
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Dadāti pratigṛhṇāti bhuṅkte bhojayate (Upadeśāmṛta 4).&#10;One should give the lover eatables and accept eatables from him or her. Dadāti&#10;pratigṛhṇāti bhuṅkte bhojayate guhyam ākhyāti pṛcchati ca . . . you should&#10;not keep anything secret within your mind, and the lover should not keep&#10;anything secret within the mind. If these six kinds of exchanges are there,&#10;then there is love. And that love should be without any reason and without&#10;being stopped by any material cause.
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So how nicely it is stated in the Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam that sa&#10;vai puṁsāṁ paro dharmo yato bhaktir adhokṣaje, that is the highest principle of&#10;religion. You can accept any kind of religion, it doesn't matter. You be Hindu&#10;or Mussulman or Christian, it doesn't matter. The test is whether you have developed&#10;that causeless . . . causeless love for God, and whether that execution of&#10;loving affair is going on without being stopped by any material reason. That is&#10;the test of religion.
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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam, how nice this is, the definition&#10;of . . .
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sa vai puṁsāṁ paro dharmo
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yato bhaktir adhokṣaje
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ahaituky apratihatā
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yayātmā suprasīdati
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If you can develop such for love for God, without any cause,&#10;without being checked, without being stopped for any material reason, then you&#10;will feel suprasīdati, all satisfaction—no more anxiety, no more&#10;dissatisfaction. You will feel the whole world full of pleasure. Viśvaṁ&#10;pūrṇaṁ sukhāyate (Caitanya-candrāmṛta).
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