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[[Category:Questions asked to Srila Prabhupada]]
[[Category:Questions asked to SP... 1975]]
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<div class="heading">Lacking, there are so many things. But one who is actually chanting Rāma, the result will be that he will get attachment. That is the process. Ādau śraddhā tato sādhu-saṅgaḥ atha bhajana-kriyā, tato anartha-nivṛttiḥ syāt tato niṣṭha tato ruciḥ tathā āsaktiḥ tato bhāvaḥ. This will increase.
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<span class="link">[[Vanisource:Room Conversation with Yoga Student -- March 14, 1975, Iran|Room Conversation with Yoga Student -- March 14, 1975, Iran]]: </span><div class="text"><p style="display: inline;">Indian man: Guruji, according to the bhakti-yoga, a person starting at least in the elementary way of bhakti-yoga...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Huh?</p>
<p>Indian man: In the elementary way, if he starts...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: What is that elementary way?</p>
<p>Indian man: Half-heartedly.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no what is that process elementary?</p>
<p>Indian man: In the dvaita way. In the dvaita way, not in the advaita way, assuming that He is different and I am different. That is the elementary way of starting worship.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes, that is always. Why elementary?</p>
<p>Indian man: He is considering in that way.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, no. Assuming there had been, supposing bhakti-yoga...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Bhakti-yoga... First of all try to understand what is bhakti-yoga.</p>
<p>Indian man: In the beginning it's relatively easy to be...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no. Explain what is bhakti-yoga.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, what we have understood from the chapters only...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: So what is that? What you have understood?</p>
<p>Indian man: Just surrender yourself first...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes.</p>
<p>Indian man: And then depend upon one God or one Deity in whom you have a sort of immense belief or confidence.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, you cannot create God. God is one, already there.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, no, but then I can create in the form of Rāma as one.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That is not creation.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, not creation, but I can have my own concentration in the Rāma-mūrti.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That's all right.</p>
<p>Indian man: Instead of Kṛṣṇa mūrti, I can...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That's all right.</p>
<p>Indian man: That way.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That's all.</p>
<p>Guest: Ah, that way. So that way is two devatās, you see.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Hm, yes.</p>
<p>Indian man: So supposing I start simply chanting Rāmeśvara...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Rāma.</p>
<p>Indian man: Rāma or Kṛṣṇa.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes, that we are chanting.</p>
<p>Indian man: Any God's name, any divine name...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That's nice.</p>
<p>Indian man: You see? And then why is it we are again getting breaks now and then and we trace back our steps?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, you can... If you are following rigidly, there will be no break.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, but rigidity is again a relative term. Rigidity again... What is rigid?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no, you said that you begin chanting Rāma.</p>
<p>Indian man: Yes.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: So follow it.</p>
<p>Indian man: Yes, but then there are breaks.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Why break? If you are serious...</p>
<p>Indian man: I don't get...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no, if you are serious, there will be no break.</p>
<p>Indian man: Ah. Then serious is also...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Then you are not serious.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, no, no, it is not the question of... No. Excuse me, Guruji, that I am not able to explain to you properly. The point is...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Then hear me, that if you chant Rāma, then gradually you will get attachment for Rāma. Then how you can give it up?</p>
<p>Indian man: Ah, that is what I am lacking.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That means you haven't got the attachment. Your procedure has been failure.</p>
<p>Indian man: Ah, but sir, what is lacking?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Lacking, there are so many things. But one who is actually chanting Rāma, the result will be that he will get attachment. That is the process. Ādau śraddhā tato sādhu-saṅgaḥ atha bhajana-kriyā, tato anartha-nivṛttiḥ syāt tato niṣṭha tato ruciḥ tathā āsaktiḥ tato bhāvaḥ. This will increase. Just like if you have gone to school—you have learned, began to learning—then your learning will increase. And one day you will come to the stage of passing M.A. examination. And if it fails, that mean you did not go to school very seriously. Otherwise the general process is you make progress and come to the standard of passing M.A. examination. Then if you have gone to school and you have not followed the rules and regulations, you have not attended the teacher, the lessons, then you failure. That I am saying, that that is not very seriously taken that "I am going to school. I must learn it." If one is serious, then... That is recommended,</p>
:utsāhāt dhairyāt niścayāt
:tat-tat-karma-pravartanāt
:sato vṛtteḥ sādhu-saṅge
:sadbhiḥ bhaktiḥ prasidhyati
<p>These are the process. First of all the first process is utsāhaḥ, enthusiasm: "I must advance in spiritual life." That is required. And if you are failing enthusiasm, then in the beginning it is failure.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, but then our attention is towards that thing.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, there no attention. You have failed. That is the proof that you had no attention.</p>
<p>Indian man: Yes, but then God should help us to keep us...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: God is always helping, but if you do not accept it... God says, sarva-dharmān parityajya mām ekaṁ śaraṇaṁ vraja: ([[Vanisource:BG 18.66|BG 18.66]]) "You give up all other engagement and take My shelter," but you are not doing that. That is your fault. So it cannot be failure unless you are negligent. You have no utsāhaḥ. This is the process. Utsāhaḥ dhairyaḥ niścayaḥ tat-tat-karma-pravartanaḥ, sato vṛtteḥ. How these boys are advancing? They have got enthusiasm: "Yes, we must make progress in Kṛṣṇa consciousness." They have given up everything. They are young men. They have got... Every young man has to satisfy senses in so many ways. But no. They are so enthusiastic, but... For understanding Kṛṣṇa consciousness they have given up everything. They are Europeans, Americans. They have got so many allurement. But I have told them that "You must give up illicit sex," they have given up; "You must give up meat-eating," they have given up; "You must give up intoxication up to drinking tea and cigarette," and they have given up, these young men. So they are utsāhaḥ. There is enthusiasm: "Yes, we must do it." That is wanted, not theoretically on the armchair of devotional service. That will not be successful. Armchair theory will not help you. You must be practical and there must be enthusiasm. Then it will be successful. You are sitting in the same position and you are thinking that you are making progress. That will fail. You have to come out with enthusiasm. Then it will be successful. That is required. Ciraṁ vicinvan. There is a verse,</p>
:athāpi te deva padāmbuja-
:dvaya-prasāda-leśānugṛhīta eva hi
:jānāti tattvaṁ na cānya
:eko 'pi ciraṁ vicinvan
:([[Vanisource:SB 10.14.29|SB 10.14.29]])
<p>If you simply speculate, it will never help you. You have to receive the favor of the Supreme Lord by your enthusiasm. Then it will be successful. Simply theorizing, speculation will not... Therefore it is said ciraṁ vicinvan. You can go on speculating for millions and millions of years. It will never be successful. Ciram. Ciram means perpetual. That will not help. This is the process, ādau śraddhā. By śraddhā, "Oh, here is God consciousness, very nice. Let us come and see what they are doing." This is called śraddhā, faith, little faith. Then in order to increase that faith you have to associate with the persons who are executing devotional service. That is called sādhu-saṅga ([[Vanisource:CC Madhya 22.83|CC Madhya 22.83]]). The devotees are called sādhu. Therefore we are opening centers, why? To give chance people to make association with the devotees. Sādhu-saṅga. And then sādhu-saṅga, after sādhu-saṅga one who has properly made sādhu-saṅga, the next stage is bhajana-kriyā: how they are executing devotional service. Then anartha-nivṛttiḥ syāt. Then this anartha. Anartha means unwanted things. Just like illicit sex, meat-eating, intoxication, these are unwanted things. It is not necessary. People have learned them by bad association. When one has got his wife, why he should indulge in illicit sex? This is sinful. When we have got so many things to eat, why shall I go to kill an animal, eat it? So these are anartha. Anartha means "without any meaning." So these things become vanquished. If one is actually engaged in devotional service, the first symptom will be that he is not interested in things which are unwanted, artificial. These are the stages. Then niṣṭhā. Niṣṭhā means firm conviction. Then ruciḥ, taste. Then āsaktiḥ, attachment. Then bhāva, and then prema. So as a student is serious, he gets promotion to next higher class, higher class, higher class, higher class, gradually to the M.A. class. That is natural. But if in the beginning he is not serious, no enthusiasm, then what is the reason that he will be promoted to the higher section? That is not possible.</p>
<p>Indian man: No, enthusiasm is there, but there are breaks.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Breaks means he is not serious.</p>
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