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<div id="1977_Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" class="sub_section" sec_index="10" parent="Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" text="1977 Conversations and Morning Walks"><h3>1977 Conversations and Morning Walks</h3>
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<div class="heading">Better allow them to live together. What can be done? But we cannot lose them. After training so much, if they are lost, then that is a great loss. This I am giving hint. Now you GBC, you change them. Make process.
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<span class="link">[[Vanisource:Room Conversation about Grhasthas -- July 17, 1977, Vrndavana|Room Conversation about Grhasthas -- July 17, 1977, Vrndavana]]: </span><div class="text"><p style="display: inline;">Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: In the New York they can live families together? In that building, families can live together and have sex life?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: What is wrong?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: In that building. It's all right?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Why not? In a building there are so many different types of men. In a big building, apartment building, you cannot expect all of them of the same class.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Hm. 'Cause in Bombay you had said that is was better that in an immediate building of the temple they should not live together with wife. They should live separately.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, that is, they are not doing business. They are attached to temple activities. Anyway, these things have to be adjusted. You cannot follow very rigid in case of gṛhasthas. Some way or other, you have to adjust. We cannot allow them to be lost.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: No. That's clear.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Better allow them to live together. What can be done? But we cannot lose them. After training so much, if they are lost, then that is a great loss. This I am giving hint. Now you GBC, you change them. Make process.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Yeah. Right now in our Society throughout the world, wherever there are gṛhasthas living in our temples, they live separate from their wives. And if they want to live with their wives, then they get a room or an apartment near the temple.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: So may be like that, but must be attached to the temple.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Yeah, that's the clear point. We should not lose anyone.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, that's a great loss.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Because if husband and wife live together in the temple itself, where there are so many brahmacārīs and... (break)</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: ...he makes love with a girl and marries and live at the cost of Society, and that is to be discouraged. If you want to marry, you work independently. Maintain yourself. And whatever you can contribute, do that. That is the... Just like Abhirāma. He's very good. And I don't want to be lost. He constructed that house, I never forbade. And it is in the campus. Let him remain a little separately. It doesn't matter.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: I think the main reason he can't live there anymore is that because of doing business he'll not always be able to be in Māyāpur, and he doesn't feel that that house is safe for his wife to live there alone.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Why alone? Can live with others.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Other householders there also.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Many householders can live there together.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Yes. There's room on the floor below...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: ...his apartment for two other families. I don't know what...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That can be arranged. That is not...</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: I don't think he feels it's safe enough.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no. This is incidental. This is not permanent problem.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: I don't know what's behind it. I don't know the full reason why he doesn't want to stay there anymore.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: If he wants to do business, how he can stay there?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Yeah. There's no business in Māyāpur.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: What is business there?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: He wants to go where there's a business center.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, business means he must do business in some city.</p>
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